I enjoyed class on Wednesday, as I thought we did a good job
of not only continuing our discussion of curriculum and the creation of rich
learning experiences for students (resources, standards, big ideas), but also
got a chance to talk about some of the procedural and relational aspects that
are such a big part of teaching.
We started class by thinking about what to do with students
who don’t have a writing utensil. It’s a small example, but helpful. What I
hoped you gained from that discussion is the importance of not just solving the
everyday problems that are constantly coming at us as a teachers, but also of
stepping back and looking at the larger puzzle of human behavior: Why is this
student acting this way? What is she trying to communicate to me? What is the
proper response?
I hope you saw that the meaning of “not having a pencil” can
vary quite dramatically depending upon the student and the situation. Therefore
our response would need to vary as well.
At the end of class, we considered the student who wrote to
Ben that “you think you know a lot about teaching, but you don’t.” I suggested
this student was trying to get under Ben’s skin by communicating something to
him that was intentionally hurtful. I suggested that this comment was less
about Ben and more about the student. If we let our egos get in the way of
dealing with such a situation—our own need to feel liked and important—we are
probably not going to do the situation justice.
Ultimately, I suggested we have to be comfortable being
ourselves before our students. But, upon reflection, that is only part of the
truth.
For we have to be comfortable letting our students be
themselves too. And those selves may not make us very comfortable at times.
All teaching is ultimately a negotiation, a co-creation between
teachers and students. Learning to teach is learning to make space for that
co-creation.
Have a good weekend!